Flirting is a language but it doesn’t require comprehension as much as it requires imagination on the part of the recipient. Cosmic Minx sat across from at a dinner party and kept doing this flip with her collar. She did it with a smirk and a half wink, giving me a good peek of her beautiful skin and big wide view of her playful side.
I thought she was just playing around. It wasn’t till my friends asked me in amazement if me and Cosmic Minx were dating that it occurred to me that she was flirting. It wasn’t till each one them said how they had never seen her act this way that it slowly penetrated my brain that this friend of mine was coming on to me.
Looking back on it, it seems so obvious what she was doing. Heck, every time she did it, I burned it into my memory and knew that I would have to get her to do it again some time when I had my camera. Which is what you are seeing above. Even though it was sending a jolt to my libido with every collar flip, my brain wouldn’t accept the obvious data because that would require my brain to see myself as a desirable person worth flirting with. I didn’t. It wasn’t out of modesty or sexual naivety, it was out of poor self-esteem. I just couldn’t imagine this sexy smart woman was interested in me.
I know better now.
6 Responses to “Flirt”
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oh, Shon, you poor silly formerly miserable boy. i’m so glad you have been cured of your delusion about being undesirable.
and many many thanks to Cosmic Minx for bringing you such happiness. it’s a pretty amazing thing, isn’t it?!
heh, one of my (now) lovers hit on me for over 6 months and I had no clue. And I’m a girl, we’re “supposed to” get the subtle hints.
Anyone who writes the intricate, intimate, accurate and sexy prose that you do can’t possibly be unattractive.
Your libidinous mind alone would draw in any red-blooded girl (American or otherwise).
Feeling as desirable as a character in my stories is a new and wonderful experience.
Silly Shon… I am glad for both your sakes that you finally caught on ;)
I have found that after spending years in a relationship, that detecting when you’re being flirted with as difficult. My 2c on that.
and wow – what a lovely picture!